Author Archives: Checking The Mail

About Checking The Mail

I am Carl Feril, a minister and retired Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist. I am married to Janet, who is far better than I deserve, and have two wonderful sons. CW is living in Waterloo, KS and is married to Kelly through whom I have 4 step-grandsons and 16 great-grandkids and 1 great-greatgrandchild. Orrin lives here in St John and is married to Meagan, and they have Jayce and Mara. God has blessed me beyond measure and I hope to share all those blessings with others.

People of Prayer

Janet and I discussed this morning about our inability to sleep last night. We both heard the 1, 2, and 3 chimes on the clock. I went to bed at midnight and woke about 5:30a. I sleep fitfully, but last … Continue reading

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Awaking to the Ordinary

I woke this morning to my typical day. As the sun began to rise and light began to show itself around the edges of the curtains I pondered what I knew the day had in store. Nothing. No agenda. No … Continue reading

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Another Night Prayer

I love the power and silence of the night, the darkness of predawn where my thoughts have free rein. I don’t ever remember being fearful of the darkness, rather fascinated better describes it. The sounds of the night bring a … Continue reading

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Give to the Lord

My morning devotion was centered on Psalm 29. Give to the Lord, you heavenly beings… Angels are to give to God what he is due, to be in awe of his splendor and wonder. As I read this Psalm and … Continue reading

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The Day After

Yesterday was Vanessa’s birthday. I had not realized that cutting my hair at the conclusion of my Nazarite vow would be such a desirable task. Because the vow ended on her birthday, she was the winner. I won’t reveal her … Continue reading

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Where Have I Been?

Today I break my fast from writing. After retiring, we spent a short period of time in South Dakota before we headed toward Texas where I intentionally took a one year fast from preaching duties. After preaching for 47 years, … Continue reading

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An Opportunity to Help

Janet and I spent Sunday with the Sundance Church of Christ in Sundance, WY. I was asked to teach class and preach, something I love to do. Unfortunately, I woke up feeling a bit off, a bad headache and some … Continue reading

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Retired, Almost

Today is my final specific preaching assignment. Today I speak for the Eastwood church in Hutchinson. I’ve been the therapist that they have provided for the church and community for the past 28 years. I’ve seen hundreds of people there … Continue reading

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Faithfulness

I’ve spent much of the past 3 years focusing my studies on the faithfulness of God. For a time, as I read the preserved history of the nation of Israel saved for us in Scripture, I was bewildered by God’s … Continue reading

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My Dumb Ol’ Brother, Fred

Before you think it disrespectful, Fred thought it was hilarious. For those of you who have heard me preach over the years, you’ve likely heard “My Dumb Ol’ Brother Fred” stories. Yesterday was the anniversary of his birth. The youngest … Continue reading

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